The Surrogacy Journey: From Paperwork to Parenthood

autumn545
Sep 12
2 min read

Surrogacy is a journey filled with heart, intention, and many moving parts. While every experience is unique, this blog offers a general overview of the key milestones most intended parents and surrogates will encounter. It’s important to remember that many steps happen simultaneously, and timelines can vary depending on individual circumstances, clinic protocols, and legal requirements.

This guide is here to help you understand the flow of the process—from the first forms to the moment a beautiful baby is born.

📝 Step 1: Paperwork with Purpose

Before anything else, intended parents and surrogates complete detailed paperwork. These forms cover preferences, relationship goals, medical releases, and background information. It’s not just administrative—it’s the beginning of a thoughtful, supported experience.

🧠 Step 2: Evaluations & Screenings

Psychological evaluations ensure emotional readiness and support.
Background checks help protect everyone involved.
Home studies (when required) offer insight into the intended parents’ environment. These steps build trust and transparency, creating a safe space for connection.

🤝 Step 3: The Match

With all the groundwork in place, it’s time for the match. Surrogates and intended parents are paired based on shared values, preferences, and communication styles. It’s a moment filled with hope—and often, instant connection.

📋 Step 4: Record Review & Medical Appointments

After the match, the surrogate’s medical records are reviewed by the fertility clinic. Then come appointments for medical clearance, ensuring the surrogate is physically ready for the journey ahead.

⚖️ Step 5: Legal Contracts

Once medical clearance is confirmed, legal contracts are drafted and signed. These agreements protect both parties and outline expectations, responsibilities, and financial arrangements. It’s a vital step in honoring everyone’s rights and roles.

💊 Step 6: Medication Start

With contracts in place, the surrogate begins her medication protocol. These medications prepare her body for embryo transfer and are carefully monitored by the clinic.

🌱 Step 7: Embryo Transfer

The big day arrives: the embryo transfer. It’s a moment filled with anticipation, care, and quiet celebration. After the transfer, we wait and hope for a positive pregnancy test.

🤰 Step 8: Pregnancy & Beyond

Once the surrogate is pregnant, the journey continues with prenatal care, shared milestones, and growing excitement. Every ultrasound, every heartbeat brings us closer to the moment we’ve all been waiting for…