Becoming a gestational surrogate is a life-changing decision—one that allows you to help intended parents achieve their dreams of having a child. But before you can begin the journey, it’s important to understand the eligibility requirements and what it takes to qualify as a surrogate in the United States.
Many prospective surrogates have questions about the process. In this blog, we’ll answer the most common questions about eligibility and requirements, helping you determine if surrogacy is the right path for you.
Whether you’re just beginning to explore surrogacy or you’re ready to take the next steps, we hope that these answers provide the essential information you need to make an informed decision. Let’s dive in!
1. What are the basic requirements to become a gestational surrogate?
Requirements vary by agency and state, but common criteria include:
Being between 21-40 years old (some agencies/clinics allow up to 45).
Having had at least one successful pregnancy without major complications.
Having a BMI within a healthy range (typically under 34).
Being a non-smoker, drug-free, and living a stable lifestyle.
Passing a medical and psychological screening.
Having a support system (partner, family, or friends).
2. Do I need to have had a previous successful pregnancy?
Yes, most agencies and clinics require surrogates to have had at least one full-term, uncomplicated pregnancy and delivery to ensure their body can handle pregnancy.
3. Are there age or health restrictions?
Yes. Most agencies set the age range between 21-40 (sometimes up to 45), and you must be in good overall health with no major medical conditions like diabetes or uncontrolled hypertension.
4. Can I be a surrogate if I’ve had a C-section or multiple pregnancies?
Yes! Many surrogates have had previous C-sections or multiple births, as long as they have healed properly and have a doctor’s clearance. Some clinics have a limit on the total number of past pregnancies.
5. Do I need to have a certain BMI or lifestyle?
Most programs require a BMI below 32 to reduce pregnancy complications. Additionally, surrogates must be non-smokers, drug-free, and live in a stable environment with no history of major mental health issues.
6. Can I be a surrogate if I’ve never been pregnant before?
No, most agencies require surrogates to have had at least one previous pregnancy and delivery to ensure they can safely carry a baby.
7. Can I be a surrogate if I have had a tubal ligation?
Yes! A tubal ligation only prevents natural conception but does not impact the uterus’s ability to carry. In fact, many surrogacy agencies and clinics consider a prior tubal ligation a positive factor because it eliminates the possibly of natural conception during the surrogacy process.
We know there are MANY other questions you may have! Check out our next blog for answers to the most common questions regarding the medical and legal processes through a gestational surrogacy. In the mean time, contact us here or check out our FAQ page!